What force motivates you? 2Cor 10:3-5,  “For though we walk in the flesh, we do not war after the flesh: 4(For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal, but mighty through God to the pulling down of strong holds;) 5Casting down imaginations, and every high thing that exalteth itself against the knowledge of God, and bringing into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ;” 

o       Your prayer life is neutralized

o       Your usefulness to God

o       Effects your body and mind

Jesus demands you to forgive.  Regardless of what you say, it controls your life.  (Whatever it is).  Even if you don’t feel like forgiveness you have to forgive so it does not control you. 

Putrefaction destroys your life.  Some society ties the murder victim to your back till you die.

If you don’t forgive you will miss the business you should have or could have had. Matthew 6:14 and 15, For if ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you: 15But if ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.”